5 Signs You’d Make a Great Foster Carer (Even If You’ve Never Thought About It)
Date published
03 August 2025
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5 Signs You’d Make a Great Foster Carer (Even If You’ve Never Thought About It)
Most people don’t see themselves as foster carers. They imagine someone else in the role: someone more experienced, more patient... someone that isn't like them - with a past, or with dogs, or in a same-sex relationship, or renting... the list goes on!
But in our years of supporting foster families at Blue Sky, we’ve learned something powerful: the best foster carers aren’t always who you’d expect.
Here are 5 surprising signs you might be exactly who a child or young person needs:
1. You’re the One People Open Up To
Are you the friend people turn to when things go wrong? Do neighbours or coworkers confide in you because they know you’ll listen without judgement?
That emotional availability - the ability to create safety and trust - is one of the greatest strengths a foster carer can have.
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Date published
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2. You’re Not Afraid to Ask for Help
Fostering is a team effort. Knowing when to lean on support - whether from friends, professionals, or your fostering agency - isn’t a weakness. It’s wisdom.
We’ve seen time and time again that the foster carers who thrive are the ones who aren’t trying to do it all alone. And they don’t have to: we have a whole team in place ready to help support you.
3. You’ve Overcome Challenges in Life
You don’t need a perfect background to foster - in fact, lived experience often makes foster carers stronger.
If you’ve faced hard times and come out the other side with resilience, perspective, and empathy, those qualities can help a young person feel understood in a way nothing else can.
4. You Believe in Second Chances
Some children in care have experienced things no child should go through. But when they come into a safe, stable home, the change can be remarkable.
If you believe that people can grow, learn, and heal - even after setbacks - you already share the heart of fostering.
5. You’ve Got Room in Your Home (and Your Life)
You don’t need a mansion or a textbook family. If you have a spare room, a steady routine, and a willingness to learn, you’ve got the foundation.
Fostering isn’t about being perfect. It’s about being present. And making space - physically and emotionally - for someone who needs you.
Still Not Sure? That’s Okay.
You don’t need to have it all figured out. Most foster carers start with curiosity and a few questions.
At Blue Sky Fostering, we’ve been guiding people on their fostering journeys for 20 years. Whether you’re ready to apply or just want a conversation, we’re here to help you explore.
You might be closer to fostering than you think. And someone out there might be waiting for exactly what you have to offer.
Read more from the Blue Sky Fostering team >>
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“She Stands Beside Me Now”: Vikki’s Story and the Power of Relationships
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Want to discuss whether you have the right qualities to be a foster carer?
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